By Georgia (Jo) Kent
“For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.” Matthew 12/37
It is often said that there is great power in the spoken word, but perhaps there is a far greater power in silence. If someone can’t understand your silence, they probably won’t understand your words. Sometimes silence is all there is to say. In solitude, we often deal with what’s going on inside of us. Proverbs 15:4 reminds us that a “wholesome tongue is a tree of life. Words are powerful.” They can wound or heal. Spoken in love or in anger, words are often remembered by those who hear them for many years.
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” Proverbs 18:21
Hearts filled with destruction will produce destructive words. There is a definite and undeniable link between the negative thoughts of our hearts and the words that blossom from our lips. The words we say (even silently to ourselves) are the direct result of the thoughts we think and the emotions that we feel. Our hearts are like a fertile garden that sprouts the unseen seeds planted there. Unproductive and destructive self talk is like a weed that chokes the life out of us. Remember, a weed won’t grow in a garden where it can’t take root. So plant some truth within your heart where it will spring up and overflow!
“A soft answer turns away wrath, but harsh words cause quarrels.” Proverbs 15:1
Trust God to help you capture words before they leave your mouth, be thankful those words were never spoken. It’s very important to choose our words carefully so that they reflect your relationship with Christ. We need to think about the words that we choose before we say them so that they always impart grace to our listeners.
A wholesome tongue is a tree of life. Proverbs 15:4